The words leader and boss may have pretty similar dictionary definitions—but in the business worlds, their practical distinctions are crucial.
Just think about their connotations. Most of us think of a boss as someone who makes demands, yells at us when we screw up, and ultimately has the power to fire us at will. A leader, meanwhile, is someone who inspires us, coaches us, rallies the team, and helps everybody move forward.
So which are you? Consider some of the following:
- Leaders actually lead. By contrast, a boss rules, governs, and dictates. A boss may sit in his office all day hammering out policies and telling everyone else what to do—but a leader is right there in the fray with the rest of the team, guiding everyone in the right direction.
- Leaders listen. A boss is not known for his acceptance of feedback or his openness toward collaboration. By contrast, a leader wants to hear what her team members have to say and to engage them in the decision-making process.
- Leaders empower. A boss might throw his employees into a project without much training or guidance—leaving them fearful and insecure. A great leader, meanwhile, does everything to prepare her team members, and to instill them with confidence in their own abilities and in the abilities of the team.
- Bosses intimidate. Leaders know better than to use fear as a tool for managing their team members.
- Bosses think of themselves as above the other employees. A leader, meanwhile, is open to constructive feedback from team members, and knows that there is always more she can learn—even from lower ranking employees!
- Bosses yell at people. Leaders ensure that their feedback is constructive and action-oriented—and that it is offered in private, not in front of the whole team.
- Bosses focus on hierarchies, i.e., “I’m above you and I tell you what to do.” Leaders focus on relationships, i.e., “How can we improve and move forward together?”
The difference, as you can see, is all the difference. So again: Which are you—a boss or a leader?
Originally posted from RickGoodman.com.